And remember this from Esquire’s interview of Valerie Jarrett, Senior White House Advisor to President Obama:
If somebody’s trying to get you angry, the calmer you get, the angrier they’ll get.
Just because you’re nervous doesn’t mean you have to look nervous. Nobody can look inside you. Project what you want to project.
You can’t expect people to put your friendship on hold because you’re in a demanding job. Friends require investment. Like a garden, you have to water them. If you don’t, they dry up.
You have to look at people in order to be able to read them.
Anytime I was hesitant about taking a chance, my grandmother would say, “Valerie, put yourself in the path of lightning.
Big kiss, Lynn
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